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The Shame of Failure

Common Beliefs about Failure are:  You are a bad ____ because you failed.  Failure is NOT an option.  Failures are losers.  If you’re not first place, you’ve failed.  Why try if you might fail?  Avoid failure at all costs.  If you failed, you:  Didn’t try hard enough.  Weren’t prepared.  Didn’t do the research.  Weren’t organized.  Weren’t […]

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You Must Die From One Path to Walk Another

You are working so hard and things just aren’t gelling.  You feel like the perverbial hamster in a wheel.  You are praying for clients.  You are praying for happiness.  You are praying for a loving partner.  Whatever you are praying for God doesn’t seem to be listening.  You feel alone, tired, and ready to give up. I […]

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3 Essential Ingredients to Manifest Your Deepest Longings

Manifesting Your Deepest Longings is a very simple recipe.  It only has three ingredients!  First, you must have a STRONG desire to see this longing to fruition.  Second you have to KNOW (from the top of your head to the tips of your toes) that you DESERVE this to happen to you.  Finally, you have […]

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I Am An Energy Worker – I Don’t Mean “Oil & Gas”!

Since I began my path as an energy worker in 2003, I have surrounded myself around people who are in the alternative and holistic professions.  However, in an effort to create an abundant energy practice, I have joined a couple of local womens’ networking groups.  I am the ONLY energy worker in these groups!  When […]

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Why is Slowing Down so Difficult??

I’ve always done everything fast.  I make decisions fast.  I eat fast.  I dress fast.  I shower fast.  I even speak fast.  You had to be fast to “survive” in my home.  Being the youngest in a large Italian, Greek family – if you wanted to eat, be heard, or get a warm shower – […]

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My Longing To Live in my Heart – A Poem

Dear God  Help me find the way to love Past shame and guilt and sorrow. Let me trust that my heart will bring Me joy in today and tomorrow. These things called shame and guilt Taint my soul with soot and muck. They fuel my rage, cause me to blame And keep me very stuck. […]

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“I Don’t Wanna Get Out of Bed!” – Depression, SAD, Whatever…

It’s a beautiful morning.  The sun is shining through the slats in my fake wooden blinds.  The pillow is over my head.  My husband got out of bed a couple of hours ago.  I have had nightmares – judgment, humiliation, not being prepared – night sweats.  I am as tired now as when I went […]

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From Shame to Destiny – Sex, sex, sex – Part II

I was able to keep the “bad” girl (or Ginger) at bay for the first 10 years of my marriage.  She might eek out a bit here and there, but I was busy.  While raising small children, I didn’t have the energy for sex, let alone want more.  My good boy was pretty rigid (excuse the […]

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From Shame to Destiny – SEX, Sex, sex – Part I

“Good girls do not have sex before they are married.  Men are all the same.  All they want is sex.  Don’t let men touch you,”  says my father.  “I was a virgin when I married your father,”  says my mother.  “Boys can’t control themselves if you get them excited.  Don’t TOUCH their penis!  It will be […]

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How To Shift From “No” to “Yes” – Depression & The No Current Part II

How to Shift from No to Yes is difficult work.  But it is DOABLE!  It can seem that we are “hard wired” into this place of pessimism, judgment, and negativity.  The place makes us feel comfortable (in a “sick” kind of way).  But I can tell you that living in the Yes Current moves you away from […]

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