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The Shame of Failure

Common Beliefs about Failure are:  You are a bad ____ because you failed.  Failure is NOT an option.  Failures are losers.  If you’re not first place, you’ve failed.  Why try if you might fail?  Avoid failure at all costs.  If you failed, you:  Didn’t try hard enough.  Weren’t prepared.  Didn’t do the research.  Weren’t organized.  Weren’t […]

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You Must Die From One Path to Walk Another

You are working so hard and things just aren’t gelling.  You feel like the perverbial hamster in a wheel.  You are praying for clients.  You are praying for happiness.  You are praying for a loving partner.  Whatever you are praying for God doesn’t seem to be listening.  You feel alone, tired, and ready to give up. I […]

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You Can Have It All – A Lesson of Abundance

In one of my first lectures at the Barbara Brennan School of Healing, Barbara spoke about the life that we deserve. She told us that: “We could have it all”. I remember thinking that she was “off her rocker” and looked around to see how much money she was making off of us, suckers. How […]

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How An Energy Worker Can Help You Work Thru Depression

There are many modalities of energy work. This article will be speaking specifically about energy workers who have graduated from a four year, intensive baccalaureate program at The Barbara Brennan School of Healing. These graduates are called Brennan Healing Science Practitioners and can help people who suffer from depression many different ways.  Brennan Healing Science […]

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Life Is A Team Sport

Many of you have played a team sport some time in your life.  Remember the lessons you learned – and then forgot when you ventured into the “adult world” called life?  As a 49 year old woman and coach of teens, I am humbled and reminded by my athletes every day: 1.  We can’t do […]

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Why is Slowing Down so Difficult??

I’ve always done everything fast.  I make decisions fast.  I eat fast.  I dress fast.  I shower fast.  I even speak fast.  You had to be fast to “survive” in my home.  Being the youngest in a large Italian, Greek family – if you wanted to eat, be heard, or get a warm shower – […]

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“I Don’t Wanna Get Out of Bed!” – Depression, SAD, Whatever…

It’s a beautiful morning.  The sun is shining through the slats in my fake wooden blinds.  The pillow is over my head.  My husband got out of bed a couple of hours ago.  I have had nightmares – judgment, humiliation, not being prepared – night sweats.  I am as tired now as when I went […]

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From Shame to Destiny – SEX, Sex, sex – Part I

“Good girls do not have sex before they are married.  Men are all the same.  All they want is sex.  Don’t let men touch you,”  says my father.  “I was a virgin when I married your father,”  says my mother.  “Boys can’t control themselves if you get them excited.  Don’t TOUCH their penis!  It will be […]

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Finding Your Healthy “No” – Depression & The No Current – Part III

Finding Your Healthy No – To Find Your Healthy Yes!!  This is an integral part of moving from the No current to moving to the Yes current!  There are three types of No’s.  There is the Whiney No.  There is the FY No. And, there is the Healthy No.  By living and speaking your healthy […]

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Depression & The “No Current” – Part I

I went to visit a friend who was suffering from depression.  While I was with them I realized that they were living in the No Current.  This place of negativity, victimization, and hopelessness.  It is a common place for most people.  Even your most optimistic friend has some No Current in their lives.  But those […]

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